There comes a time in everybody’s life in which you hope to find a purpose. Recently a purpose arose for me….advisor! That’s right, I am giving advice at my new site “Ask Real Dad“. You might be asking yourself something of the sort: “What the hell does a poor married, out-of-shape, father of 4 with …
Tag Archive: Marriage
Jan
29
Jan
16
I Should Be President!
Lately I have been getting sick to my stomach, like most Americans, at what our country has become and the pending Presidential Race. I am not an Obama supporter and never was. I also am not too keen on any of the other candidates. I lean much more to the right but these guys are …
Feb
27
Where Has the Time Gone?
It came to my attention recently that I have not posted since school started….wow! Where does the time go? I know where…to 4 kids and work, that’s where! Ok so the holidays passed, the winter is almost over and I got nothing new. #4 (Ryan) is doing great. He is the absolute best baby. He …
Sep
04
It Has Been A While
I cannot believe that the last time I posted was June 27th! As many of you may know because you are my Twitter Buds, the wife had #4 on July 9th. Ryan Michael was born without any complications but his arrival certainly made life a little crazy around here. To all of those people that …
May
02
Inventions for Fatherhood and Marriage
I have been doing a lot of thinking lately on ways to improve my life, thus my family’s lives. If you have visited my blog before then you know I have a fourth kid on the way (Introducing #4) and I am struggling with some big decisions and some negative feelings. Knowing all that we …
Apr
21
Fatherhood: A Complete Review of Fatherhood
I felt it time to do my first review. I toiled long and hard over what to review and fatherhood was the only thing I could come up with. Fatherhood may not be something I am good at but I have a lot of experience with 3 kids and 1 on the way. I affectionately …
Nov
01
A Father and Husband in a Bad Economy
How many fathers out there feel inadequate in their “providing” for the family? This is something I have struggled with myself for quite a while now. I understand in our generation that many mommies are the larger of the financial providers and in many cases the sole provider, so maybe they understand as well. I …
Oct
05
Marriage and Fatherhood – The Slow Decay of Machismo
Marriage means many different things to many different people. Most of these things are indeed great but some of them….well not so great. Over the last few days, I have realized that any measurable quantity of machismo I once possessed has been lost. I have never been known as the typical “Guy’s Guy” but never …
Sep
18
Parenting: A Change in Technique
Last week my wife came home after spending a weekend with the kids at a relative’s house and once the kids went to bed, she announced a revelation of sorts to me. She told me that she felt that she was too easy on the kids and that I have become numb to the point …
Aug
28
This Father Cannot Wait for School
School time is quickly approaching here in NJ and this father cannot wait! Although I am not the one home with the children, I receive the result of my wife’s frustration. This year Nicky will be in the 1st grade and Jordy will be in Pre-K classes 3 days per week. This is will be …








